People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
JOHN IRVINGIf you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
More John Irving Quotes
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The powerful wind swept his hair away from his face; he leaned his chest into the wind, as if he stood on the deck of a ship heading into the wind, slicing through the waves of an ocean he’d not yet seen.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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Life is serious but art is fun!
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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Religious freedom should work two ways: we should be free to practice the religion of our choice, but we must also be free from having someone else’s religion practiced on us.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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You only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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I certainly think Obama is the most hopeful president I’ve seen in the country since John Kennedy.
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