It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
JOHN IRVINGI’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
More John Irving Quotes
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If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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He had in abundance youth’s most dangerous qualities: optimism and relentlessness. He would risk everything he had to fly the plane that could carry the bomb within him.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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Life is serious but art is fun!
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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