Still shaking, in the pew, I understood that it isn’t the dead we cry for. We cry for ourselves, and I didn’t deserve my own pity.
CHRIS CLEAVEWe were exiles from reality that summer. We were refugees from ourselves.
More Chris Cleave Quotes
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I planned how I would kill myself in the time of Churchill (stand under bombs), Victoria (throw myself under a horse), and Henry the Eighth (marry Henry the Eighth)- Little Bee
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Everyone carries the weight of WWII with them in their recent family history, and yet it is rarely spoken about within families, because veterans and survivors don’t tend to talk.
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I know that the hopes of this whole human world can fit inside one soul.
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Is it my fault if I do not look like an English girl and I do not talk like a Nigerian? Well, who says an English girl must have skin as pale as the clouds that float across her summers? Who says a Nigerian girl must speak in fallen English…?
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Sometimes we don’t notice that someone is being brave, because they are only doing something that seems quite easy for us.
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WWII was, without exaggeration, the biggest event in all of human history, and it is still within living memory.
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I think, in common with a lot of novelists, I wasn’t the most athletic guy at school.
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A scar does not form on the dying. A scar means, I survived.
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We leave it up to books and movies to talk about WWII on our behalf.
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Yet war doesn’t end with armistice, it only ends with forgiveness and reconciliation.
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And thus love makes fools of us all.
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We were exiles from reality that summer. We were refugees from ourselves.
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That is how we lived, happily and without hope. I was very young then, and I did not miss having a future because I did not know I was entitled to one.
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I write in the novel’s afterword that our recent wars “finish not with victory or defeat but with a calendar draw-down date and a presumption that we shall never be reconciled with the enemy”.
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This thing with being lovers, it isn’t like being married.
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