We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
SYDNEY J. HARRISNo one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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Atheism, on the other hand, is as unyielding and dogmatic about religious belief as true believers are about heathens. It tries to use reason to demolish a structure that is not built upon reason.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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You may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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