A person obsessed with the need to be happy will never be so. The obsession is the obstruction.
VERNON HOWARDYou have it made when you don’t care whether you have it made or not.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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Anger or bitterness toward those who have hurt you will block your path to higher ground. You can have anger toward people or you can have freedom from people, but you can’t have both.
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What you really want for yourself is always trying to break through, just as a cooling breeze flows through an open window on a hot day. Your part is to open the windows of your mind.
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When one plan that you have, to get this or to get that, to advance in the world, or whatever it might be, when that seems in danger of veering off the path you have set for it.
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Who asks a king for a penny?
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A false path must be tensely and angrily defended by those it has deceived.
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Don’t look for someone in whom to believe. Believe in yourself. The only authentic authority is your own original nature.
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Bitterness is the outcome of a wrong mental movement – the attempt to force external events to conform to internal fantasy. The cure is to see fantasy as fantasy, which will reveal it as neither necessary nor rewarding.
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No one can tell you what is right for you except yourself. So start telling yourself what to do. If you blunder for ten years while thinking for yourself, that is rich treasure when compared with living these ten years under the mental domination of another.
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When told that man lives in delusion everyone thinks of himself as the exception; hence his delusion.
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All we have to do is to receive what we are given…We are given the naturalness to love someone, to be calm in crisis, to ignore self-defeating suggestions, to be pleasant, forgiving, tender, helpful, unworried, brave, energetic.
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Don’t try to be spiritual. That is only a word in the dictionary. Make it your goal to become a normally functioning individual. Let these principles shape you according to your real nature of a simple, decent, honest, unafraid human being.
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The leap is made by dropping vanity over knowledge and by a willingness to become nothing in order to become everything.
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Quit thinking that you must halt before the barrier of inner negativity. You need not. You can crash through… whatever we see a negative state, that is where we can destroy it.
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A truly strong person does not need the approval of others any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep.
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Persistence prevails, like a stream that is temporarily blocked by boulders and then collects force enough to overflow onward.
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