Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
BELL HOOKSYou can only realize change if you live simply. Once people want enormous excess, you can hardly do social change.
More Bell Hooks Quotes
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The people I love, I’m committed to loving for the rest of my life.
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I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love.
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What we cannot imagine cannot come into being.
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If we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before them.
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If any female feels she need anything beyond herself to legitimate and validate her existence, she is already giving away her power to be self-defining, her agency.
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All our silences in the face of racist assault are acts of complicity.
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Whenever women struggle with breast cancer and face better care than ever, that’s feminism.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
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You can only realize change if you live simply. Once people want enormous excess, you can hardly do social change.
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When we choose to love, we choose to move against fear, against alienation and separation. The choice to love is a choice to connect, to find ourselves in the other.
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Patriarchy has no gender.
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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The one person who will never leave us, whom we will never lose, is ourself. Learning to love our female selves is where our search for love must begin.
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When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
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