Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERHigh fashion has the shelf life of potato salad. And when past its prime, it is similarly deadly.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Everything truly important is washable.
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Cooking is 80 percent confidence, a skill best acquired starting from when the apron strings wrap around you twice.
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Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.
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A writer’s occupational hazard: I think of eavesdropping as minding my business.
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I considered her my ally, because, like me, she was imperfect.
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When moral superiority combines with billowing ignorance, they fill up a hot-air balloon that’s awfully hard not to poke.
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The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof.
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As long as I kept moving, my grief streamed out behind me like a swimmer’s long hair in water. I knew the weight was there but it didn’t touch me. Only when I stopped did the slick, dark stuff of it come floating around my face, catching my arms and throat till I began to drown. So I just didn’t stop.
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Sadness is more or less like a head cold – with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
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Will you explain to me why people encourage delusional behaviour in children, and medicate it in adults?
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Sleeping alone seemed unnatural to me, and pitiful, something done in hospitals or when you’re contagious.
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The bad thing about small-town life is that everybody knows your business…I suppose that is my central obsession. What we owe to society, what we owe to ourselves.
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There is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you’ll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold- with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
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Poetry feels like a country I visit without a passport, where I look around furtively, grab hold of something precious, and try to smuggle it back across the border. Any poem I get written down feels like contraband to me.
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Listen. Slide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember.
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