Ben Gibbard on feelings
Ben Gibbard71 quotes“Our band is very polarizing. There are people who absolutely can’t stand us, and people who absolutely can’t live without us. I’d rather spark those kind of polar-opposite feelings than have people be indifferent.”
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And it came to me then that every plan is a tiny prayer to father time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard There are the people that are like, “I want it to sound like the last one.” You can’t please everybody all the time, but I think for the most part we tend to maintain a healthy level of self-reference to kind of make sure we continue to push things forward.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I just rediscovered my guitar.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard The story of our band is that we were this relentless touring band in those early years. We were leaving day jobs and going off on the road and having fun and seeing the country for the first time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Bands who are in their early 20s today, they are living in their own time and they have a series of parameters they have to work around.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’ve covered Avril Lavigne. I like good pop songs, and I don’t think there should be any kind of preconceptions about where good pop songs come from.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I don’t want to be overly dramatic and say it’s the only thing that gets me up and keeps me going. But people in your life come and go.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I want so badly to believe that there is truth, that love is real. And I want life in every word to the extent that it’s absurd.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Liking interesting things doesn’t make you interesting.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’m a war of head versus heart, it’s always this way. My head is weak, my heart always speaks, before I know what it will say.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard When I listen to Airplanes record, it takes me back. I remember a lot of my thought processes when I was 20 or 21, writing those songs and recording that record.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard If there is one thing I think I have accomplished, it’s that I always thought of myself as a very literal songwriter, and as I look at some of those older records.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’ve always had a soft spot for Phil Collins. He’s a great vocalist.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Now that we have the resources, we’re like, “Oh wow, a nice studio is pretty nice! They do have nice outboards here. It’s actually a pretty good place.” It’s funny how much changes so quickly.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I can remember how I sang – a little more nasal-y back then. Listening to those old recordings is like seeing a photograph of yourself from 10 years ago. You’re wearing what you thought looked cool at the time. You had your hair styled the particular way you thought looked cool.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I think sometimes a narrative can come out of a single word.
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