This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
BARBARA DEMINGI learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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