Women and men grow up with both sexes. Our mothers and fathers mean a lot to us, so it’s just a question of finding a balance between their influences. I’ve found mine. And it tends to be more on the male side. I mean male side the way we understand it in the West.
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Grace Jones73 quotes“Women and men grow up with both sexes. Our mothers and fathers mean a lot to us, so it’s just a question of finding a balance between their influences. I’ve found mine. And it tends to be more on the male side. I mean male side the way we understand it in the West.”
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Grace JonesGrace Jones I don’t take the English press seriously at all because all they want is dirt. I hate them.
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Grace JonesGrace Jones Survival is my primary instinct…it’s out of my control. It’s stronger than me. It’s an outside force, a voice that says ‘do this for your life or it will devour you.’
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Grace JonesGrace Jones I’ve turned down millions of dollars to go on reality TV. It’s an absolute no-go.
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Grace JonesGrace Jones Growing up in Jamaica, the Pentecostal church wasn’t that fiery thing you might think. It was very British, very proper. Hymns. No dancing. Very quiet. Very fundamental.
Grace JonesGrace Jones My husband used to shout at my mother, ‘What is wrong with your daughter? I’m married to a man.’
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Grace JonesGrace Jones I just go with the flow, I follow the yellow brick road. I don’t know where it’s going to lead me, but I follow it.
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