Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
BARBARA DEMINGA liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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