Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
BARBARA DEMINGWe cannot live without our lives
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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We cannot live without our lives
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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