I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
BARBARA DEMINGSurely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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We cannot live without our lives
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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