Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
IRVIN D. YALOMMature love is loving, not being loved.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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