The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONGoals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONWhen parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONMost higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONOften continuity is visible only in retrospect.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONImprovisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONWe are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONAs we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONFluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONAs you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONFear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONA suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONMonotony and repetition are characteristic of many parts of life, but these do not become sources of conscious discomfort until novelty and entertainment are built up as positive experiences.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe Christian tradition was passed on to me as a great rich mixture, a bouillabaisse of human imagination and wonder brewed from the richness of individual lives.
MARY CATHERINE BATESON