People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
ROLLO MAYMany people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
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Understanding and love require a wisdom that comes only with age.
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To believe fully and at the same moment to have doubts is not at all a contradiction: it presupposes a greater respect for truth, an awareness that truth always goes beyond anything that can be said or done at any given moment.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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The creative act arises out of the struggle of human beings with and against that which limits them.
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Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.
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Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.
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