A disgruntled reflection on my own life as a sort of desperate improvisation in which I was constantly trying to make something coherent from conflicting elements to fit rapidly changing settings.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThe family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Improvisation and new learning are not private processes; they are shared with others at every age. We are called to join in a dance whose steps must be learned along the way, so it is important to attend and respond. Even in uncertainty, we are responsible for our steps.
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Monotony and repetition are characteristic of many parts of life, but these do not become sources of conscious discomfort until novelty and entertainment are built up as positive experiences.
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In many ways, constancy is an illusion.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.
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Learning to savor the vertigo of doing without answers or making do with fragmentary ones opens up the pleasures of recognizing and playing with patterns, finding coherence within complexity, sharing within multiplicity.
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Solutions to problems often depend upon how they’re defined.
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The timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it.
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A suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
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