As we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. … We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.
MARY CATHERINE BATESONThere are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
More Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes
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The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy.
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Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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What would it be like to have not only color vision but culture vision, the ability to see the multiple worlds of others.
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Every loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
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The timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it.
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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
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Solutions to problems often depend upon how they’re defined.
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The family is changing not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors.
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Insight, I believe, refers to the depth of understanding that comes by setting experiences, yours and mine, familiar and exotic, new and old, side by side, learning by letting them speak to one another.
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A suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
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The Christian tradition was passed on to me as a great rich mixture, a bouillabaisse of human imagination and wonder brewed from the richness of individual lives.
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Improvisation can be either a last resort or an established way of evoking creativity.
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Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can’t think without metaphors.
MARY CATHERINE BATESON