Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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All these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
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A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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You will search the world over and not find a nonsuperstitious community. As long as there is ignorance, there will be adherence to superstition. Dispelling ignorance is the only solution. That is why I teach.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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