I believe that women should live for love, for motherhood and for intellect, and I believe we shouldn’t have to choose. And I believe that’s always been difficult for women, to express themselves intellectually, maternally, and passionately.
ERICA JONGDo you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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It is the city of mirrors, the city of mirages, at once solid and liquid, at once air and stone.
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There’s always a backlash against progressive ideas.
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I hope we don’t have to keep going back over the same territory and winning the same rights over and over again. The battle for birth control. The battle for abortion.
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I am old enough to know that laughter, not anger, is the true revelation.
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Perhaps all artists were, in a sense, housewives: tenders of the earth household.
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No one ever found wisdom without also being a fool. Writers, alas, have to be fools in public, while the rest of the human race can cover its tracks.
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Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.
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My mother wanted me to be her wings, to fly as she never quite had the courage to do. I love her for that. I love the fact that she wanted to give birth to her own wings.
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What I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not exhortation.
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Often I find that poems predict what I’m going to do later in my own writing, and often I find that poems predict my life. So I think poetry is the most intense expression of feeling that we have.
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If we can be sufficient unto ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs.
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Don’t ye know that ev’ry Soul on Earth feels itself to be an Orphan?
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Women are the only exploited group in history to have been idealized into powerlessness.
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To name oneself is the first act of both the poet and the revolutionary.
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How could one create life with someone who represented death?
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We are so scared of being judged that we look for every excuse to procrastinate.
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There is a rhythm to the ending of a marriage just like the rhythm of a courtship, only backward.
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Flesh is merely a lesson. We learn it & pass on.
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I don’t think you could ever know just how truly special you are that even on the darkest nights you are my brightest star
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People always think that history proceeds in a straight line. It doesn’t. Social attitudes don’t change in a straight line.
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I don’t think that sex necessarily produces intimacy.
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Courage is the only Magic worth having.
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I look forward and see myself look back.
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Anger is really disappointed hope.
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And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
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Fame means millions of people have the wrong idea of who you are.
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