Gordon Allport on association
Gordon Allport38 quotes“But there are innumerable instances in human life where a single association, never reinforced, results in the establishment of a life-long dynamic system.”
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It is not that we have class prejudice, but only that we find comfort and ease in our own class. And normally there are plenty of people of our own class, or race, or religion to play, live, and eat with, and to marry.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport People who are aware of, and ashamed of, their prejudices are well on the road to eliminating them.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport Each must find out for himself, and must accept the responsibility that his answer prescribes. If he succeeds he will continue to grow in spite of all indignities.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport Indeed the measure of our intellectual maturity, one philosopher suggests, is our capacity to feel less and less satisfied with our answers to better problems.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport Extreme bigots are almost always super-patriots.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport Since we think about ourselves so much of the time, it is comforting to assume … that we really know the score…. [But] this is not an easy assignment.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport Love-incomparably the greatest psychotherapeutic agent-is something that professional psychiatry cannot of itself create, focus, nor release.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport The specific goals we set for ourselves are almost always subsidiary to our long range intentions.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport [As] Santayana wrote, ‘Nothing requires a rarer intellectual heroism than willingness to see one’s equation written out.’
Gordon AllportGordon Allport Love received and love given comprise the best form of therapy.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport From adolescence onward, however, the surest clue to personality is the hierarchy of interests, including the loves and loyalties of adult life.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport There is a story of an Oxford student who once remarked, “I despise all Americans, but have never met one I didn’t like.”
Gordon AllportGordon Allport The mature religious sentiment is ordinarily fashioned in the workshop of doubt.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport The dog [in Pavlov’s experiments] does not continue to salivate whenever it hears a bell unless sometimes at least an edible offering accompanies the bell.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport A good parent, a good neighbour, a good citizen, is not good because his specific goals are acceptable, but because his successive goals are ordered to a dependable and socially desirable set of values. (1947)
Gordon AllportGordon Allport As partisans of our own way of life, we cannot help thinking in a partisan manner.
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It is imperative that one approaches a spiritual master, for by such association one proportionately develops his consciousness towards the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
Srila PrabhupadaSrila Prabhupada I hate working out. Because I work out for films now solely I come to associate it with work.
Bruce WillisBruce Willis I love acting but I don’t like all of the other stuff associated with it. The interest in celebrities, the press, the Internet, when your identity becomes mixed up in the way people are perceiving you.
Nicole KidmanNicole Kidman I appreciate the change associated with people’s growth, but I don’t like the changes in our lives. I came to Mumbai in 1945, so imagine my acceptance of the massive changes around. I have witnessed every kind of revolution.
Lata MangeshkarLata Mangeshkar Life does not proceed by the association and addition of elements, but by dissociation and division.
Henri BergsonHenri Bergson I learned that everybody is not your friend. You have to watch who you associate with and surround yourself with positive things and people who want to do something positive.
Gucci ManeGucci Mane I don’t normally talk about my religion publicly because I don’t want people to associate me and my flaws with this beautiful thing. And I believe it is beautiful religion if you learn it the right way.
Dave ChappelleDave Chappelle You can’t influence people you refuse to associate with.
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