Driving me away is easier than saying goodbye.
ERICA JONGBreast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.
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How wonderful to have someone to blame! How wonderful to live with one’s nemesis! You may be miserable, but you feel forever in the right.
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Ambivalence is a wonderful tune to dance to. It has a rhythm all its own.
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It’s easier to write about pain than about joy. Joy is wordless.
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I don’t think you will ever fully understand how you’ve touched my life and made me who I am.
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Images are … a kind of emotional shorthand.
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Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.
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The dilemma is that if one does not risk anything one risks even more.
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Before things are written down they don’t exist in quite the same way. The act of fixing them in words gives them a kind of currency that can be traded.
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The greatest feminists have also been the greatest lovers. I’m thinking not only of Mary Wollstonecraft and her daughter Mary Shelley, but of Anais Nin, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and of course Sappho.
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Life is full of excuses to feel pain, excuses not to live, excuses, excuses, excuses.
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If you don’t have time to do it right you must have time to do it right you must have time to do it over. If you don’t know where you are going, how do you know when you get there? If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
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Women are their own worst enemies. And guilt is the main weapon of self-torture . . . Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.
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Young people never believe in the possibility of their own deaths. That’s one reason old men can send them to war.
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Every time I catch myself saying, “Oh no, you shouldn’t try that,” I think, “Yes, I should.”
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