One grows accustomed to being praised, or being blamed, or being advised, but it is unusual to be understood.
E. M. FORSTER
E. M. FORSTER
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I would rather be a coward than brave because people hurt you when you are brave.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster When you come back you will not be you. And I may not be I.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster I distrust Great Men. They produce a desert of uniformity around them and often a pool of blood too, and I always feel a little man’s pleasure when they come a cropper.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster The emotions may be endless. The more we express them, the more we may have to express.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster I can only do what’s easy. I can only entice and be enticed. I can’t, and won’t, attempt difficult relations. If I marry it will either be a man who’s strong enough to boss me or whom I’m strong enough to boss.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster Money pads the edges of things.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster We cast a shadow on something wherever we stand, and it is no good moving from place to place to save things; because the shadow always follows. Choose a place where you won’t do harm – yes, choose a place where you won’t do very much harm, and stand in it for all you are worth, facing the sunshine.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster I am sure that if the mothers of various nations could meet, there would be no more wars.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster We move between two darknesses.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster Adventures do occur, but not punctually.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster Works of art, in my opinion, are the only objects in the material universe to possess internal order, and that is why, though I don’t believe that only art matters, I do believe in Art for Art’s sake.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster I have only got down on to paper, really, three types of people: the person I think I am, the people who irritate me, and the people I’d like to be.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster So I shan’t ever marry, for there aren’t such men. And Heaven help any one whom I do marry, for I shall certainly run away from him before you can say ‘Jack Robinson.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster There is an aristocracy of the sensitive. They represent the true human tradition of permanent victory over cruelty and chaos.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster Mistrust all enterprises that require new clothes.
E. M. ForsterE. M. Forster I won’t be protected. I will choose for myself what is ladylike and right. To shield me is an insult.
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