Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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