What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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