Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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