The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAt the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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