The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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