You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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