We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWithout sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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