I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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