Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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