Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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