We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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