Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
ALAIN DE BOTTONInsomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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