Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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