Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
AIMEE BENDERI don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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