I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
AIMEE BENDERIt was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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