Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
ADAM PHILLIPSSanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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