Rituals, anthropologists will tell us, are about transformation.
ABRAHAM VERGHESEIt’s an eerie feeling, as if my old mentor is not just in the room, but in my shoes, using me as his mouthpiece.
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We must believe that ministering to others will heal our woundedness. And it can. but it can also deepen the wound.
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When you win, you often lose, that’s just a fact. There’s no currency to straighten a warped spirit, or open a closed heart, a selfish heart.
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He had so many ways of climbing into the tree house in his head, escaping the madness below, and pulling the ladder up behind him.
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If we are fortunate, we ‘beat’ the cancer. If not, we are posthumously praised for having ‘succumbed after a long battle.’
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Still, it’s an apt metaphor for our profession. But there’s another kind of hole, and that is the wound that divides family.
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According to Shiva, life is in the end about fixing holes. Shiva didn’t speak in metaphors. fixing holes is precisely what he did.
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She had always assumed that she would have years to sort out the meaning of life…
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As she bent over the child she realized that the tragedy of death had to do entirely with what was left unfulfilled.
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In America, we have always taken it as an article of faith that we ‘battle’ cancer; we attack it with knives, we poison it with chemotherapy or we blast it with radiation.
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I think we learn from medicine everywhere that it is, at its heart, a human endeavor, requiring good science but also a limitless curiosity and interest in your fellow human being, and that the physician-patient relationship is key; all else follows from it.
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Ignorance was just as dynamic as knowledge, and it grew in the same proportion.
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We come unbidden into this life, and if we are lucky we find a purpose beyond starvation, misery, and early death which, lest we forget, is the common lot.
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Not only our actions, but also our omissions, become our destiny.
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If it does nothing else, allows one the opportunity to make prolonged observations about one’s fellow travelers.
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To be around someone whose self-confidence is more than what our first glance led us to expect is seductive.
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