Sometimes I imagined stitching all of our little touches together. How many hundreds of thousands of fingers brushing against each other does it take to make love? Why does anyone ever make love?
JONATHAN SAFRAN FOERA few weeks after the worst day, I started writing lots of letters. I don’t know why, but it was one of the only things that made my boots lighter.
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We live in a world made up more of story than stuff. We are creatures of memory more than reminders, of love more than likes.
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My wife and I have chosen to bring up our children as vegetarians. In another time or place, we might have made a different decision. But the realities of our present moment compelled us to make that choice.
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She had fallen in love so many times that she began to suspect she was not falling in love at all, but doing something much more ordinary.
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In the morning, when the nothing vase casts a something shadow, like the memory of someone you’ve lost, what can you say about that?
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I’d rather somebody hate what I do than be indifferent to it.
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Love me, because love doesn’t exist, and I have tried everything that does.
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We talked about nothing in particular, but it felt like we were talking about the most important things.
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Food serves two parallel purposes: it nourishes and it helps you remember. Eating and storytelling are inseparable-the saltwater is also tears; the honey not only tastes sweet, but makes us think of sweetness; the matzo is the bread of our affliction.
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Is that growing old? Or is it something worse?
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Cruelty depends on an understanding of cruelty, and the ability to choose against it. Or to choose to ignore it.
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Of course food has an important cultural use in families, but there are things that have more important cultural uses in families, and broadening the conversation out simply from what’s reasonable also allows in other things.
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There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him. So I buried them, and let them hurt me.
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I put my hand on the doorknob because I thought maybe her hand was on the doorknob on the other side.
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I felt, that night, on that stage, under that skull, incredibly close to everything in the universe, but also extremely alone.
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We shared the smile of recognizing ourselves in each other, how many imposters do I have? Do we all make the same mistakes, or has one of us gotten it right, or even just a bit less wrong, am I the imposter?
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