Great lovers will always be unhappy, because, for them, love is of supreme importance. Consequently they demand of their beloved the same intensity of thought as they have for her, otherwise they feel betrayed.
CESARE PAVESEWhat we desire is not to possess a woman, but to be the only one to possess her.
More Cesare Pavese Quotes
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The only reason why we are always thinking of our own ego is that we have to live with it more continuously than with anyone else’s.
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The search for a new personality is futile; what is fruitful is the interest the old personality can take in new activities.
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A man is never completely alone in this world. At the worst, he has the company of a boy, a youth, and by and by a grown man – the one he used to be.
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Many men on the point of an edifying death would be furious if they were suddenly restored to health.
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There is no finer revenge than that which others inflict on your enemy. Moreover, it has the advantage of leaving you the role of a generous man.
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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference. Perhaps this is why we always love madly someone who treats us with indifference.
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Give me the ready hand rather than the ready tongue.
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The cadence of suffering has begun. Every evening at dusk, my heart constricts until night has come.
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It is not the actual enjoyment of pleasure that we desire. What we want is to test the futility of that pleasure, so as to be no longer obsessed by it.
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We can all do good deeds, but very few of us can think good thoughts.
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A consoling thought: what matters is not what we do, but the spirit in which we do it. Others suffer too; so much so that there is nothing in the world but suffering; the problem is simply to keep a clear conscience.
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All our “most sacred affections ” are merely prosaic habit.
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The act the act must not be a revenge. It must be a calm, weary renunciation, a closing of accounts, a private, rhythmic deed. The last remark.
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No one ever lacks a good reason for suicide.
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I thought of how many places there are in the world that belong in this way to someone, who has it in his blood beyond anyone else’s understanding.
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