The great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.
HENRI NOUWENCommunity is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.
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If you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
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Once we deeply trust that we ourselves are precious in God’s eyes, we are able to recognize the preciousness of others and their unique places in God’s heart.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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Listening is a form of spiritual hospitality by which you invite strangers to become friends, to get to know their inner selves more fully, and even to dare to be silent with you.
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Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
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Spiritual maturity is not knowing what to do with your whole life, but just knowing what to do next.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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Every time I take a step in the direction of generosity, I know I am moving from fear to love.
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Pay attention to the people God puts in your path if you want to discern what God is up to in your life.
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Compassion requires us to be weak with the weak, vulnerable with the vulnerable, and powerless with the powerless. Compassion means full immersion in the condition of being human.
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Compassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
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The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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Prayer is not what is done by us, but rather what is done by the Holy Spirit in us.
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What makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
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