The only way to escape the abyss is to look at it, gauge it, sound it out and descend into it.
CESARE PAVESEThe only way to escape the abyss is to look at it, gauge it, sound it out and descend into it.
CESARE PAVESEAll our “most sacred affections ” are merely prosaic habit.
CESARE PAVESELove has the faculty of making two lovers seem naked, not in each other’s sight, but in their own.
CESARE PAVESELife without smoking is like the smoke without the roast.
CESARE PAVESEThere is no finer revenge than that which others inflict on your enemy. Moreover, it has the advantage of leaving you the role of a generous man.
CESARE PAVESEBut the real, tremendous truth is this: suffering serves no purpose whatever.
CESARE PAVESEGreat lovers will always be unhappy, because, for them, love is of supreme importance. Consequently they demand of their beloved the same intensity of thought as they have for her, otherwise they feel betrayed.
CESARE PAVESEIt is stupid to grieve for the loss of a girl friend: you might never have met her, so you can do without her.
CESARE PAVESEOne does not kill oneself for love of a woman, but because love – any love – reveals us in our nakedness, our misery, our vulnerability, our nothingness.
CESARE PAVESEBut all years are stupid. It’s only when they’re over that they become interesting.
CESARE PAVESEMany men on the point of an edifying death would be furious if they were suddenly restored to health.
CESARE PAVESEAll sins have their origin in a sense of inferiority otherwise called ambition.
CESARE PAVESEThe whole problem of life, then, is this: how to break out of one’s own loneliness, how to communicate with others.
CESARE PAVESEWe can all do good deeds, but very few of us can think good thoughts.
CESARE PAVESEEvery luxury must be paid for, and everything is a luxury, starting with being in this world.
CESARE PAVESEIt is not the actual enjoyment of pleasure that we desire. What we want is to test the futility of that pleasure, so as to be no longer obsessed by it.
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