If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
More Sheleana Aiyana Quotes
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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