The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
HENRI NOUWENSelf-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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Community is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.
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Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
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Your heart is greater than your wounds.
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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My whole life I have been complaining that my work was constantly interrupted, until I discovered that my interruptions were my work.
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In a world so torn apart by rivalry, anger, and hatred, we have the privileged vocation to be living signs of a love that can bridge all divisions and heal all wounds.
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I trust in you, Lord, but keep helping me in my moments of distrust and doubt.
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Dare to love and to be a real friend. The love you give and receive is a reality that will lead you closer and closer to God as well as those whom God has given you to love.
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I feel strongly that the God we meet in solitude is always the God who calls us to community.
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Our life is a time in which sadness and joy kiss each other at every moment.
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The fruits of your labors may be reaped two generations from now. Trust, even when you don’t see the results.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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Prayer is first of all listening to God. It’s openness. God is always speaking; he’s always doing something.
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Let’s not be afraid to look at everything that has brought us to where we are now and trust that we will soon see in it the guiding hand of a loving God.
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For Jesus, there are no countries to be conquered, no ideologies to be imposed, no people to be dominated. There are only children, women and men to be loved.
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