Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
TARA BRACHThe two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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On this sacred path of Radical Acceptance, rather than striving for perfection, we discover how to love ourselves into wholeness.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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When we open to love, we become love.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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