Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
TARA BRACHPain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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