There are far more good answers “out there” than there are in you.
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He who lives by the crystal ball will eat shattered glass.
Ray DalioRay Dalio If you can stare hard at your problems, they almost always shrink or disappear, because you almost always find a better way of dealing with them than if you don’t face them head on. The more difficult the problem, the more important it is that you stare at it and deal with it.
Ray DalioRay Dalio I think so many people are reactive… they see things in a short term way they’re right up against it.
Ray DalioRay Dalio Meditation helps you stay in a calm, clear-headed state so that when challenges come at you, you can deal with them like a ninja – in a calm thoughtful way. When you’re centered, your emotions are not hijacking you.
Ray DalioRay Dalio I notice a difference from the moment I meditate.
Ray DalioRay Dalio In return, society rewards those who give it what it wants. That is why how much money people have earned is a rough measure of how much they gave society what it wanted.
Ray DalioRay Dalio Once you accept that playing the game will be uncomfortable, and you do it for a while, it will become much easier (like it does when getting fit). When you excel at it, you will find your ability to get what you want thrilling.
Ray DalioRay Dalio I’d like to be clear that a number of people find me intolerable, and they don’t hesitate to say so – which they and I cherish.
Ray DalioRay Dalio When you’re centered, your emotions are not hijacking you.
Ray DalioRay Dalio By and large, life will give you what you deserve and it doesn’t give a damn what you like. So it is up to you to take full responsibility to connect what you want with what you need to do to get it, and then to do those things.
Ray DalioRay Dalio I don’t think individual media outlets will regulate. There are such things as self-regulatory organizations that will look at the members of the industry and their behavior and establish standards of behavior.
Ray DalioRay Dalio People who confuse what they wish were true with what is really true create distorted pictures of reality that make it impossible for them to make the best choices.
Ray DalioRay Dalio It’s more important to do big things well than to do small things perfectly.
Ray DalioRay Dalio Some people seek to understand, and some people seek to portray what they want to portray.
Ray DalioRay Dalio I also believe that everyone needs to think independently and make their own decisions on what makes the most sense.
Ray DalioRay Dalio That’s what I mean by radical truth. I mean accepting reality.
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The use of self-control is like the use of brakes on the train. It is useful when you find yourself in the wrong direction but merely harmful when the direction is right.
Bertrand RussellBertrand Russell Why do you call me only so you can control me god I know you are lying but remorse sounds so good in your throat?
Allie MillerAllie Miller The cloak of death has favorites when its strings are being controlled by the puppeteer of hatred.
Raha ArazRaha Araz It’s okay to fear the things you can’t control, but let go of what you can no longer hold.
Jenny AJenny A Attachment has a self-centered approach to love, where you focus too much on how your partner makes you feel and not enough on treating them well. Connection has more room for balance, where you both seek to support each others happiness and communicate instead of control.
Tanya GillTanya Gill People tried to talk me out of running for president. Never let weak controlling people kill your spirit.
Kanye WestKanye West Don’t allow yourself to be mad over something that’s not in your control.
Polo GPolo G What you’re trying to control is already controlling you.
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