Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAGhosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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